Advice to Clueless

 While I was procrastinating I chanced upon this blog. He was asking for advice and I found giving advices more pleasing than my work so I indulged myself. Also, I love giving advices even if sometimes it’s unsolicited I love acting as Dear Abby! I was planning to write it in his comment box but it got too long so I decided to post it here instead. A blog inpsired by a blog…jeez I really should get a life!

To clueless(itago na lang natin siya sa pangalang “clueless” coz I don’t know his name)

You are not alone. I can relate. A lot of people can relate. Try blog hopping and you’d be astounded by the number of people who are in the position you’re in right now. That’s why we blog I guess…to find release and solace in the fact that we’re not alone. We could form a sort of broken hearts anonymous support group hehehe just kidding.

Well getting over someone really takes time. It doesn’t happen overnight. There’s no instant formula. No immediate cure. It’s also not pain-free. The road to healing is painful. Much has been said about getting on…letting go but the bottom line really is TIME. Be comforted by the fact that the day will come when you’ll wake up and realize that it’s been hours since you last thought of her…then It’ll be days…months…years…and you might even forget her. She’ll become a memory…a part of your past if she’s really not the one destined for you. I hope I’m making sense and if not at least I hope you were distracted by my mindless chatter hehehe. Anyways, I wanna share my previous blog about getting over your ex (read here) just don’t take the last part seriously and this prose…

After A While
by Veronica A. Shoffstall After a while you learn
the subtle difference between
holding a hand and chaining a soul
and you learn
that love doesn’t mean leaning
and company doesn’t always mean security.
And you begin to learn
that kisses aren’t contracts
and presents aren’t promises
and you begin to accept your defeats
with your head up and your eyes ahead
with the grace of woman, not the grief of a child
and you learn
to build all your roads on today
because tomorrow’s ground is
too uncertain for plans
and futures have a way of falling down
in mid-flight.
After a while you learn
that even sunshine burns
if you get too much
so you plant your own garden
and decorate your own soul
instead of waiting for someone
to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really can endure
you really are strong
you really do have worth
and you learn
and you learn
with every goodbye, you learn…