10 ways to get over your ex

March 20, 2006

1.Feel it
Tis’ a sad fact that breakups hurt. Feelings don’t just die. It’s not a switch (though sometimes I wish it were) that you can just turn off and on. So if you’re feeling sad, depressed, used, furious…feel it…cry it out …cuss it out and once you’ve finished…let it go.
2.Talk about it
Go to your best friend and talk about what happened ideally with a bottle of beer so if your friend gets bored at least she’ll find solace in that bottle of beer.
3.Accept that it’s over
Don’t hold on to the hope that someday you’ll get back again. Accept that it’s over for good.
4.Think of the negative side of the relationship
People tend to romanticize the past. Don’t! Think of the times that he hurt you and treated you like sh*t.
5.Go out and have fun!
Do the things that you were not able to enjoy when you were still part of a relationship. You might not be ready for a new relationship but it shouldn’t stop you from going out on dates. Check out the other singles. Expand your horizon and meet new friends. Enjoy singlehood!
6.Adopt a new hobby or revive old ones
Dust off that stamp album. Shine that coins that your uncle gave you. Finish that 10 year old cross stitch. But I highly recommend blogging hehehe
7.Don’t listen to sappy love songs
“And I’m so sick of love songs
So tired of tears
So done with wishing you were still here
Said I’m so sick of love songs so sad and slow
So why can’t I turn off the radio?”
So the song goes from ne-yo…well love songs can do more harm than good so turn off that damn radio!
8.Pamper yourself
Spas & massage centers are more accessible now so go visit the nearest one and relax. You owe it to yourself.
9.This too shall pass
Trust that time heals all wound. If you’re down then there’s nowhere to go but up. In times like this, say to yourself always…”this too shall pass”
10.If all else fails…get laid!

crash and burn

I can’t stop thinking. I can’t stop feeling. I can’t stop doing. I’m bound to crash & burn….I guess i already did…crashed & burned. So this is how it feels. . .lost.. confused..bruised ..abused…empty..hollow…full of pain..haunted by the past & what used to be’s.i think i like it here…no need to think…feel and do…just letting go…letting be…

Blogging

truth is i have 3 other blogs site hehehe but this site seems user friendly for non-techie people like me…i don’t have the patience to learn about those stuffs…i just wanna write and write my whole life through… so with much time on my hand right now ..i think i’m gonna get my wish granted and write and hopefully i’ll make sense so here goes